Self Analysis-Why it is important to spend some time with just yourself

Life goes pretty fast. Time is changing with every second and it's becoming the past.  Today is going to be tomorrow's Yesterday and tomorrow will be just another today.

So many of us don't even remember what they ate or did yesterday? We are so filled up with this busy and sometimes chaotic life that we don't even think what's going on and just become the puppet of time passing. Days pass like blinking then weeks becomes a month and so on, no idea what going on or do we making any progress or not?

Its ok if you are doing something meaningful. It's awesome that you are pursuing or making progress towards your heart's desire and goals.

But what if every day passes like other day and you feel like stuck in the same place and the same situation without any grow and progress. It's disgusting. Life isn't in rigidity, it needs to grow, it needs flexibility and something meaningful.

So why it's important to give time to yourself?

This is something meaningful and valuable time you ever spend. To understand yourself, your mistakes and where you heading in your life. Just ask yourself, am I happy with my current life’s situation? Do I need to change something? Am I making some progress? Am I in the position or situation where I once thought? What's going on right now, is there anything I can do to make it better then start doing it. If you can't do anything about a situation then let it, no more stress.

Be very honest, maybe you made some mistakes, maybe you went wrong but it doesn't mean you can't go right again. Maybe you wasted your time but promise yourself not anymore. Know yourself, be always the first person to criticize yourself, to promote yourself and to completely accept of your every action and their outcomes.

Changes always come from within no matter how many motivational books or videos you read or watch, its good but real effect comes when you began to change and apply it. Some people always busy by pointing fingers at others, criticizing and judging others. They gossip and joke about others. Don't waste time on this bulshit. Get busy in making yourself and everything that dear to your heart.

It is very important to look at what you are doing? And know your own bulshit that you are doing, know your own faults and mistakes.

Its all up to us to make our life better. Somehow deep down we all know what we need to do but we just think and don't take any actions. Procrastination takes all our time. Just thinking will not do anything, it is just the first step to be clear about your aim and goals, but change will happen when you start taking actions.  Even Some time a little action begin to change everything.

Always try to spend some time with just yourself to get clarity about our own life’s situation, about your own self, what really you want. It shouldn’t be a weekly habit, try to make it a daily habit. If not long then maybe 15 to 20 minute or whenever you get time like before sleep or in the early morning, or between any break in your busy life.

Be the designer of your own life, take charge of our own life and started working towards it. It’s never too late to start a new and fresh beginning. Everything started with the self.  The only one is responsible for your better life, are You? Just think and ask yourself, somehow we all know what we want and what we need to do.

Time is limited for everyone but how we use it, that matters.

 

 

In the book, Man's Search For Meaning, Viktor E Frankl wrote it beautifully-

 

"Man does not simply exist but always decides what his existence will be,

what he will become the next moment. By the same token,

every human being has the freedom to change at any instant."