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When You are Gonna Change

I want some changes or I want to change. I think this question everyone asks themselves or think at some point in their life.


It can be related to your unhealthy lifestyle, maybe you want to go out from any bad relationship, maybe you want to change your career or in some business or in some other areas of your life. You feel like stuck or you think you aren't there where you should be as per your capabilities.

Most of the time everyone knows that they need a fresh start but do nothing about it but only just think. And instead of making any progress or doing something meaningful, they keep doing the same thing and living in the same situation and imagine a different result or life.

Why some people don't take any action. Maybe they don't want to take any further risk if they have failed sometime in the past, maybe they feel at their lowest self-confidence level or maybe unknowingly they are at ease and become addicted to their current lifestyle.

If anyone looks closely they will find that in most cases only they are responsible for their current situation. It's you who made mistakes, maybe wasn’t sincere and lazy, took bad choices or habits. Or maybe because of some other factors.

But the question is when you will see the differences, who will bring the changes. The answer everyone knows and it is you. The person you see when you stand in front of the mirror is the only person that can make everything possible and bring the changes. First, you have to accept and take responsibility for every action and life or any bullshit that you have made.

It's up to you to decide and start doing something. Just don't waste time on something which isn't going anywhere and feels stuck. And you are circling a circle like you have started and ended in the same position every time. It's not good, be aware where are you heading, if not then its time to analyze and think.

New things come with a new mentality and a fresh start.

We as a human our true nature is to make progress and work in that direction which is meaningful. Which brings happiness and a sense of satisfaction that we are going in the right direction. It doesn’t matter progress is slow or fast but the whole point is we are moving in that direction where our heart wants. If the water stops to flow,  slowly it will rot and become polluted. So keep flowing and going towards something good and meaningful.

Change is not an outside thing its an inside thing.

Decide and sit some time with only yourself, alone and give time and think thoroughly, give it a day or two or a week to figure it out where you want to go. What steps you should take and what type of obstacles you will face. The first step is to think and the next best step is to act. Action is the key, take action, thinking alone will not do anything. If you keep persisting and fighting maybe at first a little bit improvement you will see or maybe nothing but if you keep fighting that day will surely come when you will succeed.

“You are what your deep, driving desire is,

As your desire is, so is your will,

As your will is, so is your deed,

As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

-Brihadaranyaka Upanishad

In life...time never comes back. So give time to your dreams and goals. Spend time with the people who understand you, love you not with the one who brings nothing but negativity. Spend much time with your family and loved once. Give time to recreate yourself, a better one. Its time to make an amendment and stay away from any negative things and aspects of your life. Its time to see things clearly and its time for a new beginning. A New You. Its time for a change, its time for action.

Just remeber...time never comes back...

So make it count...make it beautiful...


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